Zizou123 Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 Hi folks? Last week, I had to do a speech on a company at my graduate school. Two friends of mine whom are women (I’m not very close to them) approached me to have a chat. They asked me if I was taking anyone to the dance, which was the same evening. I replied no, and was a bit dumbfounded because they asked me if I even had a GF. Anyways... During the night, one of them Sarah approached me mentioning how she thinks I’m a great guy and what not. Interestingly enough, she asked me if I thought her roommate was pretty, which I replied back saying “yes.” Her BF came over and with her roommate they left the ball. The following day her roommate added me on Facebook. We barely have spoken and she’s an introvert. Does she like me? I can’t deal with mind games and needed some thoughts. Thanks Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 I don't see it as "mind games". She is probably shy and fearful of rejection, hence sending the roommate to do an equivalent of passing you a note in math class that says "Do you like Susie? Check yes or no". If you like this girl, start a Facebook conversation, then when she replies ask her to coffee. Link to comment
Zizou123 Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 Thanks! So you do think she’s interested? I just don’t want to come off as a creep as we barely have spoke before. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 She added you. Highly unlikely she would add a guy she thought of as "creepy". Are you shy and fearful of rejection? Link to comment
Zizou123 Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 She also followed me on Snapchat, so might message her eventually. I want to do it with a purpose, but do believe no women would ask me that without a purpose Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 When is "eventually?" Ever heard the phrase "strike while the iron is hot"? Do not wait for weeks trying to get up the nerve to send a message that says "Hey, saw you at the party. You looked great! Want to meet up for coffee?" Link to comment
Zizou123 Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 Yes! You’re right. She might be interested. If this is the case. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 15, 2019 Share Posted February 15, 2019 Sounds like a well meant but awkward attempt at setting you up with the roommate. If you like her, just message her and start a chat/ask her out.she asked me if I thought her roommate was pretty, which I replied back saying “yes.” The following day her roommate added me on Facebook. Link to comment
Zizou123 Posted February 15, 2019 Author Share Posted February 15, 2019 Yes. wiseman! It can’t all be a coincidence, but I should message her. You’re right. You seem to believe she’s interested Link to comment
Zenon1267 Posted February 16, 2019 Share Posted February 16, 2019 Try to make it in person. Ask her out be goofy and light hearted. Only be interested in the both of you having a great time. Have fun first and just ask her out man. Girls lose interest very quick. Remember she just another person Please don’t go about talking about marriage or kids with her. Never bring up getting official unless she does first. Always be funny man. If you aren’t funny then be goofy. But remember to be yourself. Link to comment
James516 Posted February 20, 2019 Share Posted February 20, 2019 You keep asking if she's interested when one of the major questions should be are you interested?? You're going to have a very boring, dull life if the only risks you ever take are ones that there is a 100% guarantee. That doesn't exist. So if you are interested/attracted to her, start communication as you would with anyone. And don't try to use the communication to gauge if she's interested, that will make you disinteresting very quickly. Link to comment
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