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Thread: Lack of sex but partner watches porn!

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    Woah..TMI, Kat.
    Why TMI? Iíve seen much more detail on much more personal things on this forum.

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    One or twice per week is a "normal" rate. Does he do all the work?

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    Admitting on a public forum that you make sex videos, not in the best taste in my opinion.

    But hey, if she wants to talk like that, so be it.

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    Admitting on a public forum that you make sex videos, not in the best taste in my opinion.

    But hey, if she wants to talk like that, so be it.
    This forum isnít to judge but to give advice. That seems more judgmental than helpful. If thatís how Kat spices up her relationship, and itís the advice sheís giving to OP, then kudos

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    Are you kidding? Everyone on here judges what people do and challenges others opinions.

    If someone makes sex videos and are happy with that, good on them, but I don't feel it's in the best taste to be sharing that on the internet or on an advice forum.

    We have different opinions. That's fine, but I don't see it like you do.

    Thanks.

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    Originally Posted by mustlovedogs
    This forum isnít to judge but to give advice. That seems more judgmental than helpful. If thatís how Kat spices up her relationship, and itís the advice sheís giving to OP, then kudos
    Agree completely.

    Also, this is an anonymous forum. People reveal many personal details here (note I did not use the word "admit" because there is no need for shame). I don't know if that means its public, in this context.

    Re all matters sexual - our own bodies, our own choices. Its like hiking: Take nothing but pictures, Leave no trace but affection. ha.

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    There is also a difference between advising to spice their life up and giving suggestions as opposed to saying.."hey, me and my boyfriend make sex videos".

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    There is also a difference between advising to spice their life up and giving suggestions as opposed to saying.."hey, me and my boyfriend make sex videos".
    Sheís using that as a real world example. I imagine to try and make it more relatable instead of stigmatize it. Sheís not saying they SHOULD do that.

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    Originally Posted by katrina1980
    This seems pretty typical after two years imo.

    But if you want to kick it up a notch switch your routine of watching tv every night and overall same ole/same ole.

    Take up a new hobby or take a class that gets you out of the house for a couple of nights a week.

    Let him miss you!

    It sounds a bit like you guys are stuck in a rut, which leads to boredom, which leads to him (and/or you) seeking excitement elsewhere (ie. Porn).

    What I have learned is some men need a bit of distance to maintain their strong attraction and connection.

    It's a challenge when living together or married but can be done and can work wonders on a relationship that's become routine/meh.

    Also, how about watching porn together? My bf and I do! Even the hard core stuff!

    It's exciting to do that together and can really spice things up! My bf is a photographer and we've even made our own private videos together!
    btw, us too. His pics/vids of me are so incredibly raw and powerful. If they weren't so personal, I would call it salable art. And I've zero concerns regarding privacy, security, and respect for me in the event we split. They are on lock down, even if camera or memory is stolen.

    SherrySher, I work in an industry wherein I see people's personal financial information in detail, and I see the inside of their homes. There are people who are free from public scandal, respected by their industry peers and both political parties (in the US), old enough to have grandchildren, in decades of faithful matrimony, and with more bedroom leather than a Dom/sub convention.

    People's private time is a judgment free zone.

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    Thnx MLD. And IMCA.

    I'm sorry what I wrote offends you Sherry or TMI, not my intention at all.

    Just sharing one (or actually two) of the things my bf and I do to keep our sex life exciting. That's all.

    This is the sex section after all, I've read much more sexually explicit things from some posters!

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