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Thread: Does this guy actually like me or was he just being nice?

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    Originally Posted by krystalvioli
    But the problem is that I keep having these thoughts and being confused because I want to know what his intention is.
    You're working backwards. Skip the candle in the wind approach to figuring out guys, and decide, first, what YOU want from them. From there you can operate from that place. You can say, "I find you really interesting and would like for us to go out together." Then you'll learn where he stands on that, and you can work from there. If he hems about going out, you can chalk him off as someone who's nice but not for you, and walk away. Then the onus is on him to reach out if he gets clear, and you're not doing pretzels trying to read tea leaves and fantasize about manipulating him into giving you what you want.

    Always start with the Self. Once you have clarity about what you want, you'll never need to flap around anyone who's not clear about what HE wants.

    Head high, move forward, and trust that the guy knows how to reach you if he ever gets clarity.

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    I sent him a picture of me in a dress and he answered wow😍. is that a clear sign that he's flirting or that he likes me? or do guys just do that?

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    Originally Posted by krystalvioli
    I sent him a picture of me in a dress and he answered wow. is that a clear sign that he's flirting or that he likes me? or do guys just do that?
    Do you text heart smileys to people you’re not flirting with?

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    me? no i dont

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    It's a clear sign You are flirting.
    Originally Posted by krystalvioli
    I sent him a picture of me in a dress and he answered wow😍. is that a clear sign that he's flirting or that he likes me?

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    It's a clear sign You are flirting.
    Agreed.....

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    so me sending the picture was flirting?

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    Originally Posted by krystalvioli
    so me sending the picture was flirting?
    I think you very well know you were/are. You surely are not that naive OP. Why else did you send him a picture?

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    And attention seeking and chasing him. And still he makes no effort to talk about seeing you at the next meeting and makes no effort to initiate chatting with you.
    Originally Posted by krystalvioli
    so me sending the picture was flirting?

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    okay you don't know what happened in between. he texted me way more frequently again. and I ALWAYS focus on never doing more than he does. Although it may seem like it on this forum because I share what I feel here but not with him. he snapped me a few times and I answered with a snap while I was shopping and was trying on a dress. And yeah it's flirting but he flirted back, didn't he?
    Hell some girls post stuff like that in their snapchat sories

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