Originally Posted by katrina1980
Another spin, but perhaps he was really drunk (could not drive) or sick, or in some sort of trouble, and needed a place to crash?
If he were a she (a female friend), would you refuse to let her in, in the way that you had? Screaming "go away"!
You said you're friends at the very least, or had been friends, is this not what friends are for?
I'd be very hurt and upset if a friend had done that to me.
But I get it and this is where the lines between male/female "friendships" get blurred imo and why I don't have many male friends, especially if/when we had a prior sexual relationship.