So a year and a half ago I had a 3 or 4 month long summer fling with a girl, started out hot and heavy but turned out she came from a very religious family and it was a no-go with them, I was basically a secret from her family and at my age that doesn't fly, we faded apart and didn't talk for about a year when I ran into her back last summer. We got to talking and then she started texting me, nothing crazy but it got to the point where it might go somewhere. I wasn't dating and frankly had nothing better to do, but she'd never show if I invited her over so I'd stop texting her, figuring getting back in touch was a mistake and just to move on. This period really made it obvious why ex's should stay ex's.
But a week or month would go by and she'd start texting again, saying things like she wished I was with her, or another time when flying back called me from the airport, then the airport the plane had a stop over at - weird stuff.
She'd send me pictures from her family trips etc, then she did come over and we had sex. Texting was still on and off until it was just off and I simply moved on and dated someone else.
Now, I have just found out that she had a boyfriend this entire time since running into her. The pics of her "family" trips she had sent were from a trip with him
I guess I am just wondering why? Who does that?