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Thread: Friends have dropped off after I walked away from a not-so-nice "friend"

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    We never ďofficiallyĒ ended our friendship. I just got fed up, and expressed that here, but nowhere else.

    When her mom passed last year, I contacted her immediately and sent flowers.

    After 30 years of friendship, a text would be nice. Iíve heard from other friends that I havenít spoken to in years.

    I actually think bluecastle hit the nail on the head, that once I stopped giving her the opening to belittle me, she didnít need me anymore. I served as her punching bag.

    Itís a good thing that she hasnít contacted me, because it shows me, definitively, that sheís a sh*tty person. I always want to believe the best of people, that in sad times, theyíd still be there for you but she has shown that what I thought about her for years was true.

    I blame myself for allowing this for so long.

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    I honestly think your ego is a little hurt.

    I donít contact people I donít think want to be around me. The end! If they want to see me, they can reach out.

    You clearly donít like her. So itís a non issue

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    Oh my god. I am so sorry to hear about your mom!

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    Did your mom pass? Iím sorry, I missed that - in that case some contact wouldíve been appropriate :(

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    Originally Posted by Jibralta
    Oh my god. I am so sorry to hear about your mom!
    Thank you! We are all very shocked and saddened. I appreciate it.

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    Just saw the news about your mom. I'm so so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

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    My heart goes out to you, LH. I'm so sorry for your loss of your Mom.

    Holding you in my thoughts,
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    Im so sorry L. What a shock and so unexpected. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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