Hi!
I'm a 22 year old guy living in the UK, and I've gotten into a dilemma. In this case is means that I know a girl in my age since 7 years, and she's had a few boyfriends during that time. She's always been flirting with me a bit, and sending me pictures of herself ( no nudes) because she know's I think she looks good. At this point we only met occasionally as friends. But about a year ago she wanted to hang out more that earlier, and at the time she had the boyfriend she's got now.
And what's happening now is that she wants me to sleep next to her about once a week because of her anxiety which is one of the things that makes me a bit suspicious that something's going on. The other thing is that she wants to go on a trip to New Zealand with me, so I asked her about her boyfriend, mostly because he is extremely jealous, which I could understand at times. But I doubt he knows anything about it,, and she said that, " this year I'm planning to do things that i want to do, in other words things for her own sake. Are heaps of others signs these are the most obvious ones.
Edit: she also intends to not start any conversations with me while he's at her place, and when he ignores her she starts hanging out with me or sends me messages on snapchat and Facebook. And she can hint be saying things like " youre always so cute towards me", " sweetheart" and similar things. Another thing was that I make her feel safe and loved.
So what do you reckon?
I'd really appreciate some advice!