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    Why be a tour guide and male-girlfriend while her bf gets all the benefits?

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    I want you to think very seriously about this one question...how would you feel if she was your girlfriend and she was doing this to you? You state her boyfriend is really jealous, as if there are no reasons he isn't prompted in a thousand ways to be mistrusting and jealous. I want you to think about this: You and this girl date and are an item....she sends flirty emojis to her guy friend, and wants her "best friend" (a guy) to sleep next to her in bed and cuddle because she's "scared" and has "anxiety." Tell me, OP, consider your girlfriend snuggling up with a "buddy" in bed and sending him flirty emojis and planning a one-on-one trip with him that includes hotel and exclusive couple-type activities...how well would this go over for you? Would you be jealous? Would you be mad? Would you be distrustful?

    You are the side-piece and the affair. She has a boyfriend, but she's keeping you hooked up, with claws. Oh, sure, it's all innocent...nope...she knows exactly what she's doing.

    Have some self-respect and respect the brotherhood...leave her alone. You would be devastated if she was your girlfriend and she was pulling this flirty crap on another guy she claims is "just a friend."

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    Originally Posted by purplepaisley
    I want you to think very seriously about this one question...how would you feel if she was your girlfriend and she was doing this to you? You state her boyfriend is really jealous, as if there are no reasons he isn't prompted in a thousand ways to be mistrusting and jealous. I want you to think about this: You and this girl date and are an item....she sends flirty emojis to her guy friend, and wants her "best friend" (a guy) to sleep next to her in bed and cuddle because she's "scared" and has "anxiety." Tell me, OP, consider your girlfriend snuggling up with a "buddy" in bed and sending him flirty emojis and planning a one-on-one trip with him that includes hotel and exclusive couple-type activities...how well would this go over for you? Would you be jealous? Would you be mad? Would you be distrustful?

    You are the side-piece and the affair. She has a boyfriend, but she's keeping you hooked up, with claws. Oh, sure, it's all innocent...nope...she knows exactly what she's doing.

    Have some self-respect and respect the brotherhood...leave her alone. You would be devastated if she was your girlfriend and she was pulling this flirty crap on another guy she claims is "just a friend."

    Well I really dislike the guy for other reasons than this so I don`t really care about him to be honest. This thread wasn`t intended to sort out the jealousy issue. It was more about our friendship that we`ve had since almost 6 years. Some news is that she rang me the other night and wanted to have a chat because she was bored ( she said ). She mentioned the trip to NZ again and that her and her work mates had been talking about NZ around the lunch table. And at this stage I asked her if her boyfriend knows about it , and she says " no ,, it`s quite far ahead , and Ill have to see how the future develops " , and by her tone of voice it sounded like she meant that she doesn`t know whether she is still together with him by then or not. Just before I asked her that question she asked me " Um you had an app with girls in your phone right " I answered yes and she asks how Im getting on with it ,, it really felt like she asked that question to check whether Im about to get a GF or not.. Plus the fact that she`s waited 3 months for me to come with her to buy sex toys. I mean she`s got a car , she`s got a boyfriend , a best friend and a credit card so she could have ordered it on the net ,, but she`s waiting for some reason. I just dont get it.

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    She's stringing you along.
    Originally Posted by Lostkiwi
    she rang me the other night and wanted to have a chat because she was bored ( she said ).

    I asked her if her boyfriend knows about it , and she says " no ,, it`s quite far ahead , and Ill have to see how the future develops " , and by her tone of voice it sounded like she meant that she doesn`t know whether she is still together with him by then or not.

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