Not too long ago while using my husbands phone (mine had died) a message came through facebook messenger, considering we have a joint facebook account I opened the messages it was a girl from his hometown they'd be talking for a few months ,I thought it was weird how I never received these messages as we share the page.. I then figured out he'd changed the settings to secret conversation which means only his phone receives her messages on that particular conversation.. Through the whole conversation they referred to each other as babe he said he couldn't wait to see her... I noticed she asked for money a lot and have transferred over $200 to her all up, the twisted thing is she was sending photos of her baby and man and she knows my husband is married and that we have a four year old son!!! By the way she's in another country 6 hours away by flight.
I confronted him straight away because my father cheated on my mother for three years and I refused to let it go on... My husband got mad and denied that's how I knew he was lying, he finally fessed up.. And said that she told him he was the father to her 7 year old that's when figured out he had not seen her for 8 and a bit years so the timing didn't add up..to back up they got drunk one night 8 and a half years ago while he was holidays back home and they both woke up in a hotel together not knowing whether they had slept together.
Anyways he confronted her and she confessed she'd lied and my husband cut her off ,What I don't understand was the flirting I don't know if it's because we can't have kids of our own (our son is adopted) and he felt connected to this woman thinking this was his child ,I gave him the benefit of the doubt and we talked things through..
Just days later my husband phone was buzzing constantly so I went to silence it.. I noticed his text messages were locked, I knew straight away he was up to something so I guessed his code, it was our anniversary 💔 he was texting another chick called Nicole, he was calling her beautiful and saying he couldn't wait to see her, on Monday which infuriated me because we had planned something.. I tried calling her but she didn't answer.. I confronted him again, of course he denied it saying it was his friend using his phone... But I recently went onto snapchat and found a girl named Nicole on his snapchat conversations...and discovered his been talking to more girls one named Monica
I dont understand he snapchats with me all the time, so these girls know his married!
And yes I'm furious at him but I can't leave I have a son to think of, my family live interstate and overseas.. If I leave I have to move far away.. Im so confused and hurt I just don't know what to do, I can't even tell anyone because I don't trust anyone anymore..
Someone please help me my heart is hurting so much I thought after all we'd been through that I was his one and only 💔
Heart broken Housewife