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Thread: Weirdest / most inexplainable crush

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    Um, her attentions are designed to make you leave a bigger tip.

    Kind of like the smiley face on the bill--but more finessed.

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    OP, my guess is that a lot of your interest in her stems from her apparent interest in you.

    You mention she seems to pay a lot of attention to what you say, when you visit the other restaurant, and so on. That attention surely flatters you. You like the way she makes you feel: attractive, interesting, desirable. I'm sure she's a reasonably objectively attractive physically but I bet this comes more from the huge ego-boost you're experiencing from having a younger and "new" woman notice you.

    How are things between you and your wife? Do you spend enough quality time together? Do you still flirt with each other?

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    Originally Posted by OU8122
    It cannot he turned on or off ( but I am working on it )
    I know how you can turn it off: Every time the two of you start talking, find a way to talk about your happy marriage.

    I even know how you can steer the conversation in that direction: any time she starts talking about her son, talk about your son. Then tell her what a great mommy he has.

    That'll dry things up for you.

    Wanna try?

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    Find another coffee shop asap or you will find yourself out on the street with no Wife or Child.

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