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Thread: I'm not sure what to do!

  1. #11
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    Well they moved away too .

  2. #12
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    I mean we gave been having the same relationship issues for a year.

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    You may have to relocate.

    Are the allergies constant? do you know your triggers?

    I think that you also need to address the fact that you have no friends. You have isolated yourself with you bf. This is why he behaves this way, as he knows that you have no where to go. When you get yourself together, you need to have some sort of friend group and no make a man your entire life.

    It takes a year to get a referral?

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    What country are you in?

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    I'm in the UK.i have tried social networking groups ect ,meet up I know i don't have a social circle as I find it hard to meet new people, as I have social anxiety but I know i need to make friends ,I want to

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    My allergies happen if I eat touch things I'm asking for a skin test as they don't did s blood test.Its taken a while for the drs to make a referral I've seen lots of different dr ,I've only recenty got one to take me seriously over my allergies.i get symptoms regularly.

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    Ohhhhhh, I hope the docs can help with the allergies but also I hope you find the mightiness to ditch this guy. Don't stay with someone who would knowingly and willingly say things to you like "I hate the tone of your voice" or complain about a health issue they don't even have the bear. Who the heck tells someone to get over their allergies? What a jerk off! That's not something you have any control over and as if you would use it as ammo in a fight?!!

    With your resources being limited, it would be worth calling a domestic violence shelter and seeing if they can help. Do you have a source of income? If not can you get on the dole? You don't have to leave this guy to take steps towards doing that and once that's progressed along hopefully that will give you the reassurance to ditch the bad lover.

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    Is blocking my way or hitting me lightly to shut me up abusive? He also says I'm being over sensitive over his comments.

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    I'm on the dole at the moment ,he says hes sick of my allergies as they have meant ,he's had to get rid of some of his things as they went moldy and he doesn't like it if I tell him to shut his door if he's using chemicals or the fact that we had to get rid of a bed because I was allergic to it ,it was memory foam and it stank the whole house out and I was reacting badly to it, I did buy him another bed from my own money. I bought him some replacement stuff ,he said I'm hard to love because of my allergies.

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    Then he's so loving ,he buys me things ,hugs me ,says hes try to me move sensitive ect kisses me I'm so confused he says it's cause he doesn't have the patience ect ,ive only ever been with him .

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