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Thread: My Ex, my first love, has become a massage therapist and I'm jealous

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    Platinum Member Wiseman2's Avatar
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    Exactly. You broke up 4 mos ago and shouldn't even be communicating with her or looking at her social media. It's keeping you stuck in a no win situation. What matters is what You are doing with your time, career, friends, family and dating life.

    Focus on that and delete/block her from all messaging apps and social media. If you are becoming obsessed or having this much difficulty moving on and living in the present, perhaps some short term therapy can get you out of that short circuit and help you refocus on your own profession, life, self-improvement, family, friends and dating again.
    Originally Posted by Annia
    What has being a massagist therapist have to do with anything?

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    The ex gave you a deep intimacy, consistency and security in a relationship that's not easy to find. Unfortunately, you didn't appreciate it and dumped her, too busy pursuing novelty and big plans. What you didn't realize is that in order to fly to your capacity, people often need a stable home base to return to.

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    Great pun. You dumped her so it's best to follow suit and move on.
    Originally Posted by Bubbl12
    massage was always a touchy topic.

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    Thank you all. It is true that I exaggerate. But it is also not any kind of massage, it is thai massage...

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