Starseed450 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 I work as a barista in a small coffee shop. I enjoy what I do, know most of my customers and they all tip very well. One of my regular male customers came in today and handed me an envelope with 100 dollars in it and insisted I keep it as a gift. I was hesitant at first. He told me that he had come into some money and wanted to do a nice gesture as I am always kind to him. He mentioned how he believes in karma and is doing this gesture expecting nothing in return. I was very reluctant, but I did end up accepting. I can't help but feel weird about accepting it for some reason. I have gotten good tips from customers in the past, 10, 20 dollars at most. I guess I feel odd about it, because he told me I was beautiful in the past, not in a creepy way, just casual I guess. I know I probably shouldn't have accepting it since I am having these doubts, it is just very hard to tell if he is being genuine. Am I overthinking the situation? Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 What are your company’s policies on this? At my company, cash like that is strictly forbidden. And if we accept gifts (shirts, lunches, whatever), anything above $100 needs approval. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 If it was me, I'd say thank you and then I'd keep the money. Now if he was any sort of creepy or you felt he had an ulterior motive, you shouldn't accept it. But it doesnt sound that way, he sounds like a nice guy being nice to you because he came into some money. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 You are in a tipping industry. Keep it! Link to comment
SherrySher Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 If you're allowed to keep tips..keep it and be happy for your luck! There are many hard working waiter/waitress's who deserve a hefty tip and most don't receive it. It's great when there is kindness/luck in the world. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Yes. He's not being creepy or asking you out so it seems to simply be a nice gesture. However, hold onto it because if he does ask you out you'll want to return it. Am I overthinking the situation? Link to comment
charity Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 No way would I keep it! I can't even explain why... just NO NO NO!! Link to comment
indea08 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 I vote keep it. I sincerely hope to be able to do things like this in the future for people who have left an impression on me due to their kindness, or going above and beyond, etc. He wanted to do something nice for you because he appreciates your part in his life, no matter how small it may be. Most people put a pretty high value on money, so that's the route he chose. Accept the compliment and then pass on the love to the next person who makes a great impression for you!! Link to comment
tattoobunnie Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 In the town I live in, all the moms ever talk about is how much to give to teachers, assistants, garbage men, post office, their nail and hair salon person, camp counselors, camp leaders, on and on, and on. Keep it, and enjoy it, and one day, pay it forward. Not now of course. Put it to good use. Moms here don't even bat an eyelash at $100 for a xmas gift Link to comment
greendots Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 As long as there aren't any strings attached to it [which from what you tell us doesn't seem to be the case], I'd be gracious and keep it. Like you, I've been initially hesitant at times. But what experience has taught me, some people are genuinely simply very generous and thankful! I'm very grateful that such people exists. You're a blessing in that customer's life, isn't that nice! Link to comment
catfeeder Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 Most barista-type jobs I know pool tips. So I'd 'splain to the guy that this isn't something I can keep all to myself, but if he's willing, he can consider this a gift to my whole team. That gives him the option to pull it back or not, but if he's still in, I'd thank him and call the team together so they can see who he is and thank him in person. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted January 19, 2019 Share Posted January 19, 2019 you hear stories all the time on social media about how someone payed it forward and left a huge tip or left someone money to their regular server. I would keep it. It was meant for you Link to comment
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