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[boltnrun]

You wrote this in your original post:
"But I dont want to live a poor life or be the one who is a breadwinner."

Are you now ok with these things?

[Wiseman2]

Earning money, being ambitious, being financially responsible and a good character or not mutually exclusive. At 7 mos of dating, this this the observation and having fun getting to know each other stage, not the planning the wedding stage.

I could dump him and meet another guy that makes more, but it wouldn't be him. if we choose to get married I will be all in