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Thread: Mother son relathionship affecting ours

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    okay.. so you let him turn the conversation into what he wants for himself.
    you need to ask him very clearly... "hey.. what is your plan for US? and what is your plan to transition from where we are now to our US?"

    keep him on that tract.

    if he keeps going elsewhere and avoiding that specific question... well.. you have your answer then.

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    oh and lastly.. you don't have to respond.. remember.. the conversation is about HIM and figuring out where HE IS. that's it.
    so you dont' owe him an answer now and if he pushes it.. just say, "this is not about me right now. i just wanted to undersatnd where you are and what you want when it comes to us and a potential future together..." and then end the conversation.

    then go back and think about it for a few days.. not right now. its' too emotional right now.
    just let it sink in for a few days without analyzing it or making any decisions until ou're calm.

    When you are calm.. your own answers will become obvious to you.
    What he said will become obvious to you.

    etc.

    Good luck.

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    If you want a husband/life time partner and build a family, this is not the man for you at all.

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