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Thread: Flaky Girlfriend - Financial Abuse?

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    I think you need to address why you stayed in this mess for so long.
    Because I thought she would change, clearly she didn't and wouldn't.


    Originally Posted by Honeycomb8
    If someone cancels on me an hour beforehand, they get one chance only. She basically used u. Aim higher next time.
    Oh this is not the first time she has cancelled on me an hour beforehand for things, she has done this quite often.

    It's just rude, disrespectful and arrogant.

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    We could have a bashingxsession but as another poster pointed out, what’s the point?

    It’s over and done with.

    Focus on why you accepted it.

    No that does not mean say “ yeah, I accepted it but....” and then go in another tirade about her all youre proving is she still has power over you.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Focus on why you accepted it.

    No that does not mean say “ yeah, I accepted it but....” and then go in another tirade about her all youre proving is she still has power over you.
    Do you mean why I accepted putting up with her behaviour?

    How does she still have power over me, I haven't seen or spoken to her for a week now?

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    Do you think about her all the time?

    There's the power.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Do you think about her all the time?

    There's the power.
    Admittedly yes, I do think about her all the time - constantly actually. She was the love of my life.

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    Originally Posted by Depressed
    Admittedly yes, I do think about her all the time - constantly actually. She was the love of my life.
    Up to this point. She WAS the love of your life up to this point.

    Hopefully the real love of your life won't cheat on you and you won't be accusing her of "financial abuse".

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Up to this point. She WAS the love of your life up to this point.

    Hopefully the real love of your life won't cheat on you and you won't be accusing her of "financial abuse".
    Yes I hear what you're saying.

    Words are cheap and if you love someone then you won't treat them like this.

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    really.. its time to move on.
    stop thinking about her.
    move on.

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    Originally Posted by thisisrichey
    really.. its time to move on.
    stop thinking about her.
    move on.
    Easier said than done but I'll try.

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    Originally Posted by Depressed
    Easier said than done but I'll try.
    What have you done so far to try to move forward from this breakup?

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