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Thread: Does “not caring” really get a guy’s attention

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    She will find a relationship and you'll get a lot of catch and release guys. So tell her that her way leads to relationships and your way leads to a lot of pump and dumps.
    Originally Posted by jaquiiiimez
    My friend doesn’t believe me that if you ignore a guy. The more he’ll be attracted. Can someone help me help her understand

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    Originally Posted by happpybear
    I used to be very shy around guys, and because of that I would inadvertently ignore them, I didn't do it on purpose but It was a fear response, and so it came across as aloofness and like I was ignoring them. I did this to guys I had crushes on who didnt know I existed, and also to guys that I knew liked me, whether I also liked them or not. So basically any guy that wasn't a friend.

    And all of those guys moved on to date other women who gave them the time of day. And I was single for a long time until I changed my ways. Lesson learned.
    I did this at times too, but I think being shy/fearful is completely different than ignoring someone on purpose as a game.

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    Originally Posted by jaquiiiimez
    My friend doesn’t believe me that if you ignore a guy. The more he’ll be attracted. And if he doesn’t care then it’s a good thing. Can someone help me help her understand
    I don’t get the part — if he doesn’t care then it’s a good thing. ???

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    Only if he's an anxious and insecure man, then yes it will get his attention and he'll chase, beg, grovel, etc. A secure, confident man won't do that crap. If she seems to not care or is indifferent, then I move on and chalk it up to her loss not mine.

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    My ex bombarded me with attention ONLY when he thought some other guy wanted me. Then again, he was an immature idiot.

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