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    Ghosting?

    After weeks of phone calls and texts I finally went on a date with a guy back in April, I thought it went well. He texts me the next day saying the same and then nothing, I did message him to ask if he was ok, but then again nothing so I deleted him and got on with life. But this mornig he texts me at 7:45am

    "Hi ******* how are you? I know this text is out of the blue I just had a lot of family stuff going on way back x"

    Do I respond?

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    Same way he did to you...nothing. He obviously hit a dry spell or stopped dated whoever he ghosted to you for so don't reward his rudeness with a reply.
    Originally Posted by dizzygirl
    -and then nothing,
    -I did message him to ask if he was ok, but then again nothing
    Last edited by Wiseman2; 01-06-2019 at 06:29 AM.

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    I wouldn't respond. Family 'stuff' for almost a year? Give me a break.

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    Let me guess...he choose another girl over you (even if you didn't know it), things didn't work out with her, so now he goes back to door number two.

    He's an ass, he didn't even have manners. Don't waste your time.

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    No......................

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    I wouldn't bother responding.

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    I wouldn’t respond. He’s shown his true colours.

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    Don't worry Guys, I haven't, I found pics of him and his new GF posted yesterday on his facebook...What an idiot!

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    Originally Posted by dizzygirl
    Don't worry Guys, I haven't, I found pics of him and his new GF posted yesterday on his facebook...What an idiot!
    Good call, dizzy.

    Wow, texting you while he has a gf? Sounds like a prize.

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    Well there you go, he does and probably did have another gf back when you went out with him. Block and delete and move on.

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