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Thread: Ghosting?

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    NOPE.

    When someone shows you who they are believe them.

    If he had said, hey.. I met someone else, or hey I took a break from dating, ok, because its ok for people to change their minds and want to try again...but dropping off the map for family issues...unless they were all taken over in a zombie apocalypse he could spend 15 seconds to text you, if he cant be honest and frank with you the odds of it happening again are pretty high.

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    Completely dropping off the map is not okay. The thing is, I would be curious and I'd entertain chatting, meeting...the second time rarely fares better than the first, so it's really just a situation of curiosity and not investing it it. To each his own, but I don't recommend it. The best course of action would be to ignore. There's a reason things didn't kick off in round one, and doubtful it will be different on round two. The latest turn of events? Facebook relationship abounds? No and no. He's monkey-branching and cheating. This is maddening entertainment, however, and part of me wants you to toy with him, respond, but this means you would also be toying with his girlfriend, and that is not cool...no response is how you handle this. But what a good laugh over the absurdity of it all!

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    Similar thing happened to me last year (2017), around Xmas. On Xmas day, I got a "Hi LHGirl, How's your Xmas?" Since I had long ago deleted his number, and I didn't recognize it, I wrote back, "Can I ask who this is?" and he wrote back "Greg". Which I then ignored.

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    Why do they do this? I'm not bothered as I wasn't that into him after my disaster last Christmas. But why when they already have a Gf, I just don't get it?

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    Because they have no moral compass and only care about themselves.

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    His Gf is absolutely stunning and 10 years younger? lol

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    Originally Posted by dizzygirl
    His Gf is absolutely stunning and 10 years younger? lol
    Maybe he was just looking for his ego to be stroked, who knows.

    But seriously, this guy has no morals.

    Glad you didnít respond to him!

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    He's probably using you to make her jealous. He wants you to text him back, so she can get all jealous and act like you're stalking him.

    Tell you what: Block him from all access, so you can't even view him anymore. Wipe your hands of this creep.

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    Originally Posted by Eliza50
    I wouldn't respond. Family 'stuff' for almost a year? Give me a break.
    I didn't understand it was during a year. But anyway don't contact him no more.

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    Originally Posted by dizzygirl
    His Gf is absolutely stunning and 10 years younger? lol
    That doesn't mean much when it comes to guys like this.

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