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    BF obsessed with ex.

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, we live together and things are stable, or at least I thought so,

    Few weeks ago I was holding his phone while he was bouldering and I saw he received a text and I could see from the notification who it was. His ex. I opened it cause what she was saying disturbed me.

    They’ve been texting for a few weeks and mostly about sex. All they did together and loved, all they miss. They exchanged pictures too. In one of the texts they actually talk about meeting for sex. Then I come up. He tells her he’s happy with me but she still lights up his fire like crazy. I don’t think she agreed cause she said wouldn’t that be cheating or something like that I don’t remember what she wrote exactly. Then he says I don’t think I would cheat, it’s just a desire and how they could still just meet for a normal coffee. Also I know he follows her on all social menu and watching all her videos and pictures.

    I haven’t told him I know cause I’m so afraid of hearing what he has to say. Does this count as cheating? Is it a sign the relationship is over?

    I’ve been googling similar stories but they’re all conflicting. Help me.

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    This guy got no respect for you. Would he like it if it was you who was texting your ex about missing sex?

    You don't need google or us to tell you that this guy is not good for you. He doesn't deserve you.

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    He has already cheated on you!
    He loves her! He does not love or respect you!
    Where is your self respect! Dump his azz!

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    You wrote this in March, almost a year ago, when you first started dating him. In your first post, you were upset that he was still texting his ex:

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    So here we are, almost a year later, and he's still texting his ex. Only this time, you saw the text, and they are sexually explicit in nature.

    And you want us to tell you what????

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    This is his true character, therefore I'd quit while I'm ahead. If confronted he'll deny it til the cows come home, along with finding better ways to cover his tracks if you choose to stay.

    Please make the right choices, and send him packing.

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    He's cheating on you and there's nothing left to do than to dump him.

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    I agree with the others. Plus what is bouldering????

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    Originally Posted by melancholy123
    Plus what is bouldering????
    I didn't know either. I had to google it! A form of indoor rock-climbing.

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    This relationship is dead in the water, yes.

    He has no business texting his ex in this manner. If he loved and respected you, he wouldn't be doing something that he knows would hurt you deeply. Hearing what he has to say about it isn't even what's important, really. What's important is that he is doing any of this to begin with.

    Get rid of him. You will more than likely regret not doing so.

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    THIS IS WHY REBOUNDING IS NOT OK PEOPLE.

    ok now that I got that out of my system, please leave, youre a place holder. Im so sorry, none of this is fair to you, but yes a relationship with no trust is done.

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