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Thread: Introverted girlfriend, doesn’t engage socially with my friends

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    My last ex used to be social but when I met him was the type to only hang out with a couple people. He didn't get along with my friends and I grew tired of it. It was always awkward when he was there. He had the opportunity to get to know my friends but didn't try hard enough and I broke up with him partially because of this reason. Socialising is very important imo.

    It's not minor issue, this is a big problem.

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    I dunno, if the OP has already made it very clear to his gf as to how her actions affect him and why he would like her to step it up and she still refuses to make the effort, then yeah - you either have to accept the way things are, OP, or move on.

    If by chance the OP hasn't made himself clear to the gf, including how these actions affect him and why he feels the way he does, I can't see how bringing it up again could do any harm (especially if she thinks of it as a trivial, minor problem, when in fact it seems to be a fairly large concern to the OP).

    It seems like this is a pretty good relationship, other than this one issue. I'd hate to see a relationship being thrown away due to poor communication (that's if the OP was considering breaking up with her because of this).

    I'm not sure if this is a communication problem, or if maybe the OP wants to bring it up one last time (despite already having communicated his concerns very clearly) because he's hoping she'll change. If it's the former, I'd give it one last try and make your concerns very clear. If it's the latter, OP, you're definitely wasting your breath.

    You seemed to be a bit unsure of yourself when you mentioned that you did raise this issue with her, OP. Hence my comments above.

    Only you know, OP.

    Good luck!

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