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Thread: doesnít usually text me at 3am...tonight he did

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    Not buying that he just "woke up" after having sexy dream, being you're a virgin and have never had sex, doubtful he would have disrespected you like that.

    My guess is he was probably drunk and horny and not in his right mind.

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    Well, I don't think anyone who was (at the very least) smart, would send that kind of text to someone they have not yet had any carnal knowledge of. IMO a guy that was respectful and who wanted to impress you, would wait to send things like that after he knew you were a loving and committed couple or at the very least, you and he had already been intimate.

    I'd talk to him about it but not over text and tell him that you are uncomfortable with sexting and don't want to be involved in it until you have at least been intimate. Just ignore that text as if you didn't get it until you see him. You can of course text him with other things like asking him how his vacation is going and what you've been up to if neither of you are able to actually use the telephone function on your had held device. (geeze I hate that you kids don't talk on the phone anymore. Texting is so cold and distant)

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    Originally Posted by katrina1980
    Not buying that he just "woke up" after having sexy dream, being you're a virgin and have never had sex, doubtful he would have disrespected you like that.

    My guess is he was probably drunk and horny and not in his right mind.
    Iím kinda agreeing with this.

    But Iíve dated men who texted me late at night after waking up from a sexy dream. Honestly, itís Something fun to wake up to, but we were already sexually active. I donít think I would have liked it as much had we never slept together, in fact I know I wouldnít. Itís all about comfort levels.

    Heís pushing the envelope. The question is are you ok with it?

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    I think he probably just had a few drinks and was fishing for some sexy talk.

    If he's been talking more about "fooling around" then I think it's safe to say that's exactly what he wants to do when he sees you again. Perhaps he thinks you'll warm up to the idea and sleep with him.

    You have to decide if that is what you want too.

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