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    Sending the first message

    Hi all, I need help with starting a conversation with a complete stranger. Basically I have watched this person on a website called twitch (like youtube). I like him and think hes cute, I would just like help on what I should send him to start it off. I want something that will hopefully get a reply and something a little flirty/cute ;)

    Since I am a viewer, I donít wanna creep him out hahaha

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    Don't send "cute/flirty" if you don't want to seem immature or creepy. He probably has a gf. Start a dialogue by saying something nice about his video ask a question. If there is no reply, date boys in real life. Why don't you check how many fans/followers he already has?
    Originally Posted by Alyssa1
    I have watched this person on a website called twitch. I like him and think hes cute. I want something that will hopefully get a reply and something a little flirty/cute

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    umm.. how about comment or ask a quesation about something on his youtube?
    realize that this person is probably getting hit on by many people and not just you and the %'s of anything happening is zero right? (aka don't get your hopes up too much).

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Don't send "cute/flirty" if you don't want to seem immature or creepy. He probably has a gf. Start a dialogue by saying something nice about his video ask a question. If there is no reply, date boys in real life. Why don't you check how many fans/followers he already has?
    Go with this ^^^^

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    I like Richie's idea of just starting a convo about his you tube , you will soon see how interested he is to talk back .

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    Originally Posted by thisisrichey
    umm.. how about comment or ask a quesation about something on his youtube?
    Yes! People love to talk about the things they are interested in.

    By the way, many men are turned off by getting unsolicited "flirty" messages just as much as women are so wait until you see if he might be interested in more before you move forward with that.


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