does my guy prefer same sex

I love my guy and he loves me but when it comes to sex, he prefers my mouth or my ass rather than my . He likes to watch porn and play with toys before we play with each other and he blows in my mouth and thats it, its over. He may play with me for a minute or two after then jumps right back on his computer. I think he would rather a man than me. Makes me feel sad and unwanted not to mention unpleasured. Please be honest with your replies of advice people, do you think my man prefers man to woman?? Do you think he is in this relationship for all the wrong reasons?? Am i a fool for ignoring my gut??

Dump this selfish jerk! Why have you stayed in this?

Straight or gay, this is not acceptable.

That is definitely a hurtful situation and I feel for you, I really do. A healthy relationship takes TWO people that feel acknowledged and heard. It sounds to me like he has a porn addition and possibly a confusion as to what sex is actually supposed to look like. Communication is key at this point, never be afraid to ask for what YOU want. If that doesn't change anything...its time to ask yourself the hard questions. Is this something I can live with? NEVER put others value above your own. Self love is not selfish...it is vital.

I can't tell you if he's doing this because he'd prefer to be with another guy, or if he's just plain selfish.

Either way, he shouldn't be your boyfriend.

It's not necessarily that he's gay. He's just basically using your body for an orgasm without the love.

He is being an animal about it too.

Dump him. You don't deserve to be treated this way.

 

I love my guy and he loves me

What you described isn't love dear, not even close.

He's using you to get his rocks off. Plain and simple. Dump this guy.

How old is he? Are you two still in high school? You need to dump this clown. Don't be a blowup doll for creeps. Get your self respect together. Get to a therapist to explore this awful lack of self esteem.

he prefers my mouth or my ass.he blows in my mouth and thats it, its over.

How old is he? Are you two still in high school? You need to dump this clown. Don't be a blowup doll for creeps. Get your self respect together. Get to a therapist to explore this awful lack of self esteem.

This says it all.