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Thread: Unsure about how honest to be

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    You weren't even together at the time, you did nothing wrong and didn't cheat. Don't say anything, there's def no need.

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    we kept in contact until then and have been happily together ever since.
    I'd keep it this way and keep my mouth shut. Just as it's unwise to detail with a new lover our prior relationships or sexual encounters, it's equally unwise to go there with stuff that happened during a breakup.

    Confessions only feel 'good' for about 30 seconds, and they don't resolve guilt. The guilt is just amplified with MORE guilt for hurting the one you've now burdened. Once that damage is done, you can't ever undo it.

    Skip the confession, or bring it to a therapist or clergy. Don't dump it on your lover, or you can kiss your happy days goodbye--and you won't be doing HIM any favors.

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    You were on a break, and honestly, he probably fooled around with someone else.
    Dont feel guilty, and dont confess. It was 2 years ago... try to let it go.

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