Hi everybody! I don't know if this is the right group... Anyway, my problem is: I went through a breakup six weeks ago, my ex broke up with me. I am still sad but I am seeing a therapist. I changed my work place, and I have a crush on one of my colleagues. He is really nice, I find him handsome, every time I see him my heart beats faster. We talk every day, usually he comes to me to talk, and we discuss personal things too, and there is a lot of common in us. Today he shared his chocolate with me, I found it so sweet, and then he said he got it from his girlfriend. I tried to manage my smile and poker face, but after he left my office, I started to cry. I know it's stupid, but until I thought there is hope, my heart break because of my ex wasn't that bad. It doesn't mean I am over him yet. Now I feel my heart broke again a little... At least I had hope until today. I know they don't live together, but it doesn't mean anything. I am friendly with him, haven't shown my attraction. I don't want to confess him (he is a psychologist anyway...), because I want to chat with him in the future, however maybe avoiding him would be better... But I can't avoid him. Talking with him was the highlight of my day... I feel so stupid and devastated, another rejection again (it feels like rejection). I dress up and put makeup on because of him, and I am happier because of him... Now I feel I am in a dark hole again.
Have you ever been in this situation? What have you done?