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Thread: Am i overthinking? Partner wants to go away alone

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    I can see why you're worried. This is the guy that has 5 kids by 3 different women. But he does probably need the time off to meditate and decompress. My head would explode trying to deal with that.

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    Yes thats true and im.meeting the kids this week thats where we are going

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    Wow I'd love 4 days to myself if my husband went fishing or whatever by himself. Why do you mention there's little to no reception where he's going? Do you plan to phone or text him on a regular basis? People need alone time. You are really over reacting.

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    Originally Posted by melancholy123
    Wow I'd love 4 days to myself if my husband went fishing or whatever by himself. Why do you mention there's little to no reception where he's going? Do you plan to phone or text him on a regular basis? People need alone time. You are really over reacting.
    More for his safety ..secluded beach nobody around etc

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    Originally Posted by Pocketrocket
    More for his safety ..secluded beach nobody around etc
    And his cheating brother will probably want to go at last minute

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    Originally Posted by Pocketrocket
    And his cheating brother will probably want to go at last minute
    It seems this is what you are truly worried about. Do you think they'll bring women with them?

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    Originally Posted by MissCanuck
    It seems this is what you are truly worried about. Do you think they'll bring women with them?
    I trust him but the brother has turned up before with random chics.. i wasnt on the scene then

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    He also thinks i should trust him regardless what his brother does.. he feels he shouldn't have to tell him no chics allowed camping with the boys

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    This type of insecurity and clinging will shorten your relationship eventually. Pick your battles. Get your own life and interests and friends. Let people have their space, privacy, time to reflect, etc.

    Are you afraid he's going to cheat with a fish?🐬 Or this is a secret rendezvous with a mermaid or mysterious woman?👣
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    Thanks for the replies
    Other circumstances?
    Only that its 4 hours drive and on the beach with little to no reception ..he has been a few times with mates but hsnt taken me for a while ..thats the only other circumstances can think of

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    You are overthinking. Having time apart is healthy for any relationship. Use the time he is away to do things you enjoy. I promise you, you will survive without him for 3 days.

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