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Thread: Still confused to this day.

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    Still confused to this day.

    Hello everyone! My name is Krul and I am a female teen so yes I need teen relationship advice for this one, if it is okay for you. Its about me and this guy named J, (Its a code name).

    So anyway this is started this year. We know each other for like two years. Just two people who know their name, age and birthday. Thatís all. So basically, kinda acquaintance?? I am not very sure. I sometimes roast him and he tries to roast me back. (If that makes sense.) Keep it mind that we are both in high school. (Sorry if my English is not good.) So basically, we know each other for two years and we only talk to each other at school. This year, in the beginning of the year, he sometimes ask me like mostly if I want to go on a date with this person or not and I usually say no because I know that he was just messing around. He did that until the end of the school trip, he asked me again if I want to go on a date with him and I was like, uhh okay sure, why not. I really didnít care because I was so used to of him joking around. And then he stated to ask me questions like, will I go with him if he buy me expensive brands like Chanel or Gucci and I replied, I really donít like those brands because I donít want anyone spending expensive clothes or items to me.

    After the school trip, he started to say ďI love youĒ to me, in front of everyone and which I said, ďI love you too.Ē Because again, Iím used to him joking but he only did that to me. He sometimes acted like we are dating which I play along with it. Sometimes he stop doing that for like two weeks or something and then one day, out of nowhere, he continues and then the next day, nothing. I hope this makes sense, I am very sorry if it doesnít. I think that I kinda like this guy but it is very weird. I am the only one that he calls me babe, in front of everyone. And once one of my friends asked if we are actually dating, and he said, ďyeah, we are in a relationship.Ē By the way, we never talk to each other alone or outside of school, just in groups.

    So again, I think that he is joking but I want to be absolutely sure. I donít really know if what he is saying is true or not because no one knows if he is saying the truth or not. So what do you think??

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    How can you be in a relationship if you do nothing but chat in a classroom in school or in a group in school? Sounds like he's doing nothing but teasing you. Typical high school teenager behaviour.

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    I think he likes you, but he is very immature and is afraid of rejection, so he's acting this way.

    I would ask you, do you like this boy? Do you want to date him? If you do, you need to ask him out on a date. Maybe after school, you can go to a cafe or McDonalds just to sit and talk to each other. He doesn't know how to show his emotions yet. You need to help him.

    Have you had a boyfriend yet? Maybe you both can practice with each other. Get his cell phone number and try texting him when you get home.

    Or if you don't like him, tell him to go away and leave you alone. Tell him your friends are talking about you and you don't want them thinking things that aren't true.


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