Originally Posted by cbgrace1980
I am so sorry you are going through such a hard time. It sounds miserable. I have been in your shoes before. It is very painful and depressing. People CAN change but they have to do a lot of hard work in order to do so...have you ever let him know how you feel inside when he insults you? When I was in your position I found a wonderful personal counselor who helped me deal with everything in a better way, but I learned that I don't need someone in my life who wants to hurt me. My spouse did change over time and we are doing really well now. I hope things turn more positively for you very soon. My faith in God is the only thing that helped me through everything.
Was your spouse abusive or did you just leave him? Iím sorry but I do not believe that abusive people can change and become better, but that's just my opinion.

Lost- you need to get out immediately. You need to seek help from family and friends.
He will not change. It will only get worse.