Nicol17 Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Please I need some advice he asked me on a date I don’t know what to do I’m freaking out he is the out of my league type of guy ! Please any advice!! Thankyou! Link to comment
maew Posted November 23, 2018 Share Posted November 23, 2018 Please I need some advice he asked me on a date I don’t know what to do I’m freaking out he is the out of my league type of guy ! Please any advice!! Thankyou! Ummmm just say yes!!! And treat him like a regular guy, cause that's what he is. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 Is "he" the guy whom you found strange for not having any form of social media? Link to comment
Nicol17 Posted November 24, 2018 Author Share Posted November 24, 2018 Omg yess it’s him ! Link to comment
milly007 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 You need better self-talk, girl! He's not out of your league. Remember this. Like maew said, he's a regular guy. He has quirks and flaws and highs and lows like the rest of us. I know it's easier said than done, but it's obviously important to keep this in mind and not put him on a pedestal. Most importantly, don't put yourself down and tell yourself he's out of your league. He's interested in you, which is why he asked YOU out on a date. He likes what he knows about you and sees. Just keeps your thoughts about him in check. He's human. Enjoy, savour and have fun! Link to comment
Nicol17 Posted November 24, 2018 Author Share Posted November 24, 2018 He wants to have dinner would it be weird if I suggested coffee instead, I’m too nervous for dinner Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 OMG calm down! He's a guy, he puts his socks on the same way you do, every day. He's not a god or a super hero! Say yes, and if you'd prefer coffee over dinner, suggest coffee. Link to comment
milly007 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 He wants to have dinner would it be weird if I suggested coffee instead, I’m too nervous for dinner Not at all. Just say, "Would you mind if we met for coffee instead? I know of a few great places where we can meet!". I can relate. I'm not a fan of meals during a first meet/date, so often recommend coffee or drinks instead. Link to comment
DanZee Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 Well, it's certainly one way to cure a crush. Go out on a date with him and see if he's for real. And don't keep him waiting for an answer. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 Is this the same guy you gave your number to and shot down when he asked you to dinner? And the one you were searching for on social media? Go for coffee if you don't want to eat in front of him or feel the need for excessive date preparation if it's dinner.He wants to have dinner would it be weird if I suggested coffee instead, I’m too nervous for dinner Link to comment
BNMNY13 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 I don’t wanna be a downer haha but please let me offer some words of caution... Maybe the guy is out of your league idk I’ve never met you two. If you mean he has great character, awesome! But if you’re just talking about looks... be careful. A lot of good looking guys ask out girls at a “lower level” for this very reason: those girls tend to be short on confidence and eager to please the one who’s “above them.” He could be looking for one thing, an easy thing. Be smart, be confident, and most of all respect yourself. Don’t be easy! If he’s a good guy, he will be patient and respectful and you won’t have a problem. If he’s a jerk, he will disappear after a couple of no’s. Good luck! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted November 24, 2018 Share Posted November 24, 2018 Agree with this. Accept the date but do things on your terms. if you’re just talking about looks... be careful. A lot of good looking guys ask out girls at a “lower level” for this very reason: those girls tend to be short on confidence and eager to please the one who’s “above them.” He could be looking for one thing, an easy thing. Be smart, be confident, and most of all respect yourself. Don’t be easy! If he’s a good guy, he will be patient and respectful and you won’t have a problem. If he’s a jerk, he will disappear after a couple of no’s. Good luck! Link to comment
Nicol17 Posted November 24, 2018 Author Share Posted November 24, 2018 Thankyou soo much guys ! It was very helpful Link to comment
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