How would you reply?

Alright friends, I need your help on how to reply to this guy that’s playing hard to get.

We dated 3 times how’s in the span of 2 months.

It’s been a week since our last date, I don’t know if he’s interested in me..

Here The dialogue:

Me: I’m having a good day, oh! And I got a new hair cut. :)

Him: Will I be able to recognize you?

Me: only if you let me know when our next date will be ;).

Him: who said there’s going to be another date?

How should I reply? Give me your best answers!

Thank you!! Wish me luck!

Well you haven't, so I am! Where do you fancy going?

(Although to be honest he doesn't sound that interested to me.)

I would say that 3 dates in 2 months is low-interest, OP.

I am gathering that's more his choice than yours, though, correct?

No actually I initiate the dates & texts

I don't think he's interested. I wouldn't bother replying.

No actually I initiate the dates & texts

That's what I meant. He's not the one reaching out and setting up dates. You are. Thus, the low frequency is because of his lack of interest, not yours. I would let this one be. He's not that into it.

Clearly he is not interested. Why are you chasing this guy? Do you pay for the dates?

Thanks guys....yea I’m over him, I lost my interest, I hate trying for men that don’t try...

Thanks guys....yea I’m over him, I lost my interest, ..

Wow, that was quick, lol.

I'd say that at the 2 months mark onmy 3 dates is very low. He's not playing hard to get, he just doesn't seem interested. Don't chase him and stop texting him.

This alone should indicate that you should be dating others and stop the texting nonsense with this guy. He's obviously sidestepping your asking him out, contacting him, chasing him, etc...

We dated 3 times in the span of 2 months.

Alright friends, I need your help on how to reply to this guy that’s playing hard to get.

We dated 3 times how’s in the span of 2 months.

 

It’s been a week since our last date, I don’t know if he’s interested in me..

 

Here The dialogue:

 

Me: I’m having a good day, oh! And I got a new hair cut. :)

Him: Will I be able to recognize you?

Me: only if you let me know when our next date will be ;).

Him: who said there’s going to be another date?

 

How should I reply? Give me your best answers!

 

Thank you!! Wish me luck!

Since his reply was kind of mean spirited... I might say something like "Ouch!"

Or I would block him given that he doesn't seem interested anyway.

Yeah, he doesn't seem interested, sorry. His response was kind of mean, maybe it would be different if he was showing you way more interest and it was obvious he was teasing you, but this is ouch.

You said you're over it, but I'm going to respond anyway. My reaction would probably be no response. The answer is clear...he's really not interested or low interest and his comment was more "ouch" than silly fun. As mentioned above, if you were in a solid dating relationship and it was clear there was high interest, this could be one of your little quips or inside jokes, but given his behavior, the sparse dating and lack of getting to know you, it was really rather mean spirited.

On the up side, it didn't take you long to realize this wasn't a path worth pursuing any longer. Wounds licked, moving on. Sorry, but as they say, there is always another bus.