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Thread: I had an encounter with a transgender woman I need advice/wisdom

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    You would be better off taking up sky diving for an adrenaline rush. Less risky, more invigorating and no guilt/disgust.
    Hahah no thanks, I dont need that kinda rush. This was just a curiosity that I got a little to carried away with.

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    I think a lot of us in this world have done something that we later regretted doing but as I've always said, better to regret and have done then to not have done and been plagued by what-ifs.

    Like a lot of us in this world, in time your experience will fade from your memory and your guilt will diminish until it's extinguished. Forgive yourself.

    IMO its only a bad thing if you keep doing what you know is going to cause you this kind of anguish so if you have a voice in your head to experiment for that "rush" yet again, then maybe you'd do well to talk to someone professional about either learning to partake without the guilt or helping you to not give into the urge.
    Yeah idk what was going throug my mind. Once was enough to know it wasn't for me. I dont feel as bad about it now. Just gotta make better decisions in the future. Thanks for the advice

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    ... onward you going knowing instead of wondering.

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    I have friends who are trans girls and your story is like de ja vu. They have had some many experiences like this with guys who were 'first timers' I guess you could call them.
    Firstly, don't feel in anyway ashamed of your urges, both my friends are on dating websites and receive hundreds of messages every day from straight guys. Your urges are not unique, many straight guys have them.
    I think it is a shame though, that you have taken your objectifying of these girls to this level as you should have realised that as soon as you shot your load, you would have wanted to bail. You must remember that these women are human beings with feelings and that they are objectified sexually continuously and are treated as a dirty secret. Please if you are to do this again, be more respectful to them and think about how it makes them feel if you are just using them to get over some sexual fantasy, and as soon as you're done with them, you want nothing to do with them.
    I am not ashamed to admit that I find some tgirls attractive. I consider myself to be completely straight and although I have no sexual desires with these women, or have I ever come close atall to acting anything out, I appreciate this may be largely to do with the fact I have been educated to their 'struggles' if you will. What I have learnt from their experiences tho, is that all the guys who get with them are straight and are attracted to their female qualities. These girls are treated as a fetish though, so I would ask that unless you are willing to see them non-sexually, like take them out on a date, don't just shag them and walk away. You have had your experience, you have got it off your chest now. If you continue to have further urges you have to accept that this is what you're into, and that maybe a relationship with a genetic girl will never satisfy you. So be brave and date one and treat them woth respect, or suppress it and deal with the potential consequences further down the line whatever they will be.
    If it was just a one off, then who cares. No-one needs to know, life is a series of experiences afterall, and know that this experience of yours, is common, plenty of straight guys have been with a tgirl, I have no doubt

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    You would be better off taking up sky diving for an adrenaline rush. Less risky, more invigorating and no guilt/disgust.
    There's still a bit of risk. He could jump out of the plane, pull the rip cord on the chute, and end up landing on top of a transgender.

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    I agree with Tjphoenix, these women are humans with thoughts, feelings and desires. If you want to experiment, then perhaps a call gurl would be a better way to go. They don't want you to hang around afterward generally.

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