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    My step kids mom is trying to get pregnant...

    Where do I start lol. My husbandís crazy ex just had her tubes untied after 12 years and is now trying to get pregnant by this new guy. The problem is she canít even care for her own kids now. She has (my step kids) a 16 and 12 year old that she neglects to spend time with, doesnít get them their needs, and lives off disability. My step kids have expressed many times that they donít get why she is trying for a baby with this new guy. My poor step kids feel so neglected by her and now they fee like if she does get pregnant they will be even more neglected. It breaks my heart so bad. Is it mean to say that I hope she doesnít have success with getting pregnant? My step kids have even said the same thing. They both are on edge recently because they knew the surgery was coming up. Sorry if this sounds a bit petty of me but my heart is there for the kids...

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    Why doesnít your partner get full custody?

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    We have tried. The courts said since she hasn't hurt them physically that they can't do anything about it. It breaks our hearts because the 16 year old has told us since they were 11 that they want to live with us full time. She has even said she sees me as her mother and not her real mother. The 12 year old is still in limbo because he doesn't really understand everything that his mom has done.

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    If I'm not mistaken, they are at an age where they can choose who they live with full time.

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    My brotherís eldest daughter chose to leave her mom and go live with my brother. Zip mom can say about it . My niece was 16 when she did so. Many places in North America in between 12 and 14 kids can decide which parent they want to live with . This 16-year-old can definitely pick up and leave anytime she pleases .

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    We have talked to the courts and they say they will take into consideration how the kids feel but since there is no physical stuff going on the judge will be less likely to approve anything.

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    We have hired a lawyer even and they even said since no physical harm had been done the judge will most likely not change the custody agreement, but we are still fighting.

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    A 16 year old can walk out anytime she wants.

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    We will have to look into that since she just turned 16.

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    Look into the laws where are you are . I am in Ontario, Canada. My niece told her dad pick me up he did and thatís it . She never went back to her motherís and itís been almost a year . Absolutely zero Mom can do about it and here the police canít even bring you home at 16 . I had a different niece leave home at 16 because she was pregnant. She went and lived at the boyfriendís motherís house. My step sister tried to bring her home and the police told her nope too bad she is 16 she can do what she likes .

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