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    I'd be asking him why he's getting so involved with you when he is no place to offer you what you want. If you two break up he'll just hook up with another person who is low in self worth until she too pushes for something solid.

    Give them both up and start again when you yourself are ready to actually be in a true relationship of reciprocality. You must be in some sort of fear of commitment to be hanging your star on guys who don't want anything more then your poonanny.

    Deep down, are you sure you want to be in something mutual and respectful?

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    Originally Posted by Kittymeows
    I say Iím a sugar baby and he was my daddy but there is only 3 years difference between us. .
    I would hardly call this a "sugar baby/daddy" scenario. My understanding is that it's usually a much much older guy, old enough to be your grandfather, and very young women. Not sure why you would label this as "sugar daddy/baby" at all. Maybe I'm missing something...

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    It's good for him. He's got you pursuing him, available when he wants, and you are jealous of a stripper he's going to sleep with. I doubt he has any real feelings. He found you looking for women to purchase for sex. He's getting that now without paying even.

    Think long and hard: you are jealous of a stripper and insecure over a man who bought sex from you. Cool?!?

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    Originally Posted by Capricorn3
    I would hardly call this a "sugar baby/daddy" scenario. My understanding is that it's usually a much much older guy, old enough to be your grandfather, and very young women. Not sure why you would label this as "sugar daddy/baby" at all. Maybe I'm missing something...
    Sugar relationships come in many various ways. Iím an older sugar baby (35) and he is a younger daddy (38). We met in a sugar daddy website. It started as a sugar relationship because he was paying money to see me.
    (please note people- sugar babies donít necessarily have sex with their daddies, it can just be good company and someone to do things with- want to go to a good restaurant and have a pretty girl listen to all your problems or have good conversations? Sugar baby. The point is you get a connection, without the hang ups of a gf)
    He said he wanted to date me properly, and was still willing to give me money, I rejected the money in order to show my sincerity- that I was doing it because I liked him. I didnít want him to doubt my feelings because he provided for me financially.... I broke it off not long after. Then there was the whole in again off again thing..

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    You must be in some sort of fear of commitment to be hanging your star on guys who don't want anything more then your poonanny.
    Youíre absolutely right I do have a fear of commitment. SD spends a lot more time with my brains than my Ďpoonannyí though. haha.
    I also canít blame for not wanting to commit as a bf when I say I want to.... Iíve broken it off with him multiple times, not the best basis for a committed bf/gf relationship.

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    Originally Posted by Kittymeows
    Youíre absolutely right I do have a fear of commitment. SD spends a lot more time with my brains than my Ďpoonannyí though. haha.
    I also canít blame for not wanting to commit as a bf when I say I want to.... Iíve broken it off with him multiple times, not the best basis for a committed bf/gf relationship.
    Step away, figure yourself out, decide what you end dating goal is and then when you have a goal, strive for that instead of doing what you've been doing. You are what I call a "crazy maker" and I tell guys that are attached to women like you to ghost them and be done with her.

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    You are what I call a "crazy maker" and I tell guys that are attached to women like you to ghost them and be done with her.
    ĎCrazy makerí hahaha touchť. To both myself and them. The task of stepping away is difficult when you have the feels, Iíll start with space. Thanks for your honesty xx

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    What's the point of it if he can't afford his divorce, no less strippers and sugar-baby escorts. The courts will have a field day rifling through his financials.
    Originally Posted by Kittymeows
    he is focused on the court cases. Itís difficult for him both emotionally and financially

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    So last night I told him if he was really committed to me, he would tell his stripper ex that we are exclusively dating. He refused to do that. I ended it. Pretty heart breaking but Iím glad I had the courage to accept nothing less. Thank for everyoneís input xx

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    Good for you!

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