First relationship with a girl

Hi guys,

I’m 23 and I’ve always dated men, but I’ve always been bi curious. recently started dating a lesbian woman and we really fell for eachother instantly, the relationship is great I can really say that I’m in love with her and there’s mutual sexual attraction, but now we’re like a year in.. I kinda miss the one thing women don’t have during sex haha.. ‘the penis’ I’m not sure how to tell her and if I should? Cause there’s nothing wrong at all.. don’t wanna like upset here cause I feel like she won’t understand since she isn’t into men at all. And it’s not like I want someone else or anything. Any advice?

Does she know this?:

I’ve always been bi curious. it’s not like I want someone else or anything.

She knows im bi curious, and have always been in relationships with guys, and she knows I only want her. But she can be jealous at times

That's what toys are for... present it in such a way that it isn't about missing anything from her, just that you happen to like the feeling of something in your vajayjay.

EDIT: she might actually understand.... I have a friend that is a committed lesbian and likes to sleep with men occasionally because she happens to like that feeling too. It's pretty natural I think.

But she can be jealous at times

Be careful. Some people use their jealousy to control their partners. Emotional abuse is quite common in lesbian relationships.