Anwa6620 Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 I have a fairly large crush on my Crossfit coach. He started offering me rides home since we live near eachother but hasn’t ever advanced and actually started just going home and having me walk my way. We are both single, around the same age. I would say I’m generally attractive and someone he would be interested yet he hasn’t shown any interest and I leave the country in 4 weeks. Should I tell him and risk it being awkward when I go to workout? Link to comment
RayRay63 Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 I leave the country in 4 weeks What exactly are you looking for? Link to comment
RayRay63 Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 The direct approach would likely be the best then. Tell him what you want, and that it has a limited time span. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 Are you hoping this hookup will alleviate some of the problems with a LDR? I don't have a great social life here, because I'm the girl with the boyfriend 8,000 miles away. I am feeling very sad lately and like he doesn't respect my amount of effort. I love him very much and don't want to lose him. We are now at 7 months together and I only have 5 weeks left until I return home for good. Any advice on how to make these last 5 weeks easier? Link to comment
thisisrichey Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 yeah agreed.. if you're just interested in hooking up - direct is best. Link to comment
Anwa6620 Posted October 23, 2018 Author Share Posted October 23, 2018 No longer together :( Link to comment
catfeeder Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 but hasn’t ever advanced and actually started just going home and having me walk my way. This is your signal to skip him. I'd work with another coach for the next 4 weeks and focus on finding someone in your new location. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Sorry to hear this. How did you break up? Are you hoping to reconcile when you return?No longer together :( Link to comment
abitbroken Posted October 24, 2018 Share Posted October 24, 2018 Nope. I wouldn't do it. Link to comment
figureitout23 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 No longer together :( I’m sorry to hear that. You wrote about your now ex 7 days ago. Which would mean in that time you broke up and developed a crush and now have reached the well thought out decision to have sex. Link to comment
RayRay63 Posted October 25, 2018 Share Posted October 25, 2018 I’m sorry to hear that. You wrote about your now ex 7 days ago. Which would mean in that time you broke up and developed a crush and now have reached the well thought out decision to have sex. In fairness though, the OP is talking about a time limited (4 weeks or less) physical dalliance, with both parties going into "eyes open", not an emotional relationship. Or at least I hope that is all the OP is talking about. Link to comment
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