JustMizz Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Hey ya'll! I just wanted to write to let you all know I'm doing well. I'm no longer seeing the FWB and I'm no longer talking to the guy who came back after ghosting me last year. I'm sticking to myself and starting to enjoy being single. I'm not dating nor do I feel the desire to date right now. My life is definitely a lot less stressful! I'm totally focused on improving myself and giving my daughter the best life possible. I hope you're all doing well! Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 It's great to see positive comments here! I'm glad you are doing well and focusing on yourself and your child. There's certainly nothing wrong with being on your own for as long as you want to be. Link to comment
SherrySher Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Really great update! It's always good to hear positive posts. I hope things continue to go well for you. Link to comment
cristal Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 I remember your threads. Great you've finally found relief from all of that pain. Sometimes you just have to leave those unhealthy relationships behind and get in touch with who you are. Seems like you've done that. Kudos to you! Link to comment
JustMizz Posted October 22, 2018 Author Share Posted October 22, 2018 Thank you everyone! I'm really happy that I was able to overcome the pain and emotions and the anxiety. I feel amazing! Link to comment
catfeeder Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Hey ya'll! I just wanted to write to let you all know I'm doing well. I'm no longer seeing the FWB and I'm no longer talking to the guy who came back after ghosting me last year. I'm sticking to myself and starting to enjoy being single. I'm not dating nor do I feel the desire to date right now. My life is definitely a lot less stressful! I'm totally focused on improving myself and giving my daughter the best life possible. I hope you're all doing well! That's great news and it's very thoughtful of you to update the forum. Giving your romantic focus a break buys you a nice climb to higher ground where your perspective will become more enlightened. You'll feel stronger and more confident in your choices going forward, and your ability to allow wrong matches to pass early will come much easier. Most people are NOT our match. That's just the natural odds. If you can think of singles as each carrying around a puzzle piece to test with others to find a fit, you'll recognize that a wrong match isn't a reflection on you. It just means that wasting time on trying to force a fit will impact the whole outcome of your puzzle. Learning how to free yourself from that effort opens your avenues to finding true simpatico with the RIGHT match for you. Head high. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Love to hear these kinds of updates. I'm glad you're taking care of you and your daughter and it's really thoughtful of you to post this also for others who might be struggling right now. All the best to you and to your family. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 Thank you so much for coming back and updating and so glad to hear that you are doing so well. I hope it's a little bit of inspiration for others in your shoes. Choosing to let go of toxic relationships, choosing to take a break and be single for awhile can seem so scary to people, but once you do it - turns out that life is bright and fun. Link to comment
JustMizz Posted October 22, 2018 Author Share Posted October 22, 2018 Thank you for all of the kind words. And I do hope someone reads this, and goes and reads my past posts to see all the mess I've allowed myself to go through, and realizes there is light at the end if you just believe in yourself. My ex and I split just over 5 months ago, so it does take time to get through the motions. Honestly, the best thing I did was block him so he couldn't keep reaching out to me because he would not stop and it was keeping me from healing. Link to comment
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