Originally Posted by indea08
I LOVE the book/story idea, thank you guys for that suggestion!!
Wiseman, he has no rights or visitation established and as far as I’m aware, he has no interest. He seems happy with his yearly check-in via text, which is okay with me as he’s not exactly a good role model and really has no clue how to be a parent. He does not pay child support, and we both prefer it that way. He couldn’t afford it, I don’t need it, and I’d rather he not go to jail for nonpayment. We have discussed adoption with our local court, just didn’t receive much direction so we are still gathering info. Bio-father has happily agreed to sign his rights away so there will be no issues there (he knows and likes my husband, and is grateful for his role in my daughters life).
It’s really the best situation it could be, we’re just coming up on the time to explain reality to my daughter and it’s a difficult situation to navigate. My parents are still happily married, as are most of the couples in my family, so this is pretty foreign to me.