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Thread: Any guys/girls 40 or older never had a gf/bf?

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    Any guys/girls 40 or older never had a gf/bf?

    Are there any guys or girls here 40 or older that never had a gf/bf? If so what's your story and reason? Does it bother you at this old age of never having a gf/bf?

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    Have you tried asking anyone out since the last time you posted? Have you tried an escort? What have you tried?

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    I have a male friend who is probably 53 or 54 and he's never had a date. He's a nice guy, good looking, crazy smart, and he's funny but I think he's just too shy to put himself out there. I would have asked him out if I wasnt married!

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    Omg how is that possible ;( has no girl ever asked me out instead?

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    Almost there. I have social anxiety.

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    IwishIknew,

    I'm 41. Had a girlfriend for a couple of weeks when I was a freshman in high school. She was also my first kiss. Nothing since then including high school and college. I've tried online, asked friends, tried Meetup, speed dating, singles mixers, and go out alone a lot to put myself out there. Been turned down many many times. If I get a number I contact them and never hear back. I'll admit I have made some mistakes too. Still have my V card too. Yes it really bothers me. I feel like I've missed out on a lot of things. At this age I feel that I will never have my own family. I refuse to pay for companionship or intimacy.

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    Haha. I had a "girlfriend" in high school, she used me to hide the fact she was a lesbian. Really shows how women think of me.

    People like Honeycomb8 really do live in their own little fantasy world.

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    No, I haven't done the escort service yet. I'm thinking back and forth weather or not to do it. One side of my head says yes go do it!!!! and other side says no! I want to do it and have the experience what it's like to be with a girl and kissing and having sex for the first time. But the down side is very risky.

    I have bad luck in life and most likely something bad might happen. A few downsides if I do the escort service:

    * It could be a set up
    * I could be robbed
    * Might feel like a loser that this is the only way for me to be with a girl by paying her $$
    * I might get attacked
    * I could get a transmitted disease
    * The girl could have bad odor
    * I could be turned down due to my bone disorder
    * The pic in the ad isn't the same girl in person
    * If something goes wrong or for whatever reason, the girl could call the police saying I raped her
    * Being rushed and not getting my full time I payed for or not getting sex
    * Not being able to perform or last long
    *Might be addicted to it

    It really sucks, this most likely is the only way I'll ever experience what it's like to be with a girl or getting my first kiss/sex by paying her $$

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    Well, you shouldn't do it illegally. Not only does that make being set up/robbed/ripped-off much more likely, but by doing so you will be supporting pedophilia and human trafficking. Go where it's a legal, legitimate business, like a licensed brothel in Nevada.

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    My sister-in-law never has. She is 47.

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