Unexpected new LDR

Hello,

I've met this foreign girl on Tinder in July (she was in thr country just visiting) and we hit it off pretty well. We had amazing sex the first night and then we've dated 2-3 times a week for 1 month and a half (having sex everytime). During that time we went dancing, picnic, took walks, it was great. We were really into eachother. In september she had to go back to her country for a week and then come back, but they refused her re-entry at the airport telling her she had to leave in 3 days. So obviously that was a hard blow and we spent the 2 and a half days together. Its been almost 1 month now that I haven't seen her but we're still communicating everyday.. We've been communicating everyday since the begining actually... She told me she really wants to come back over everything else. Though it could take a few months for her visa to be approved.

Our interactions are simple and straightforward and everything just runs smoothly. She told me a few times that she never felt this way in her life and I believe her. She did go out of her way a few times which demonstrated her interest and level of commitment, which I also did on my end. We haven't explicitely told eachother that we're in love. We're both 27 and realize that it is maybe too soon... but I am sure she is thinking about me a lot and I am too. She invited me to visit her and is even willing to pay my ticket.. but I cant anytime soon because I dont have any vacation days left at work.

I don't have any interest in meeting other girls or hooking up and its not about opportunities because I could easily be going out with other girls. But I just dont want to. At all. At least for now.

We didnt really discuss exclusivity but its somehow implied, at least in my thought process. We had a discussion yesterday, and she told me that she doesnt want to be the one holding me back (in regards to other relationships) so I told her exactly how I feel about not wanting to meet other girls - This triggered some tears in her eyes, but I didnt ask why, and now I regret not asking... :(

I really dont like lying about my emotions and prefer to tell what I have on my mind. However this being a new relationship, I am afraid that she'll take me for granted and maybe lose interest. I know girls love to chase and inconsciously be insecure about their man... I've been a bit clingy on texts for about 2 weeks but I never double text and now I've slowed down a lot, and she initiates a lot. We both initiate conversations but I wanted to give her some space... I didnt really ask her about what she thought about maybe meeting other guys, maybe because I dont know if she'll tell me the truth or that I'm afraid of the answer... I wish I would have asked her yesterday (especially about the tears)..

How can I bring back the discussion? Should I let it be (but its tormenting me)? What are your thoughts in general? Should I fear that she has cheated already or maybe soon because of the no sex situation or since she is probably in love for the first time she wouldnt want at all or is not even contemplating to meet other guys? Maybe I have trust issues, maybe Im paranoid and I did read alot on forums since the begining of the relationship but this is my first post.

For all you know of her, she's married. Not saying she is, just pointing out that you don't even know this girl past the mere three months that she was here and joined a hook up site to meet you.

You are fretting far too heavily over a girl that you knew would have to go back home eventually and would likely not get an extension on her visa or be able to return so soon. You might want to dial back your attachment level because you're putting far too much into a stranger who may very well be looking for some chump to marry her so she doesn't have to return to her homeland. Again... not saying she's doing that but for all you know, she very well could be so do your best to simmer down. I'd be considering it a temporary fling and nothing more at this point if I were you.

As for her crying:

I have a couple of "guesses:"

1) She was feeling guilty because you are more smitten then she is and you're clearly showing it.

2) She was overcome with your sincerity and it touched her.

3) She's married and felt sorry for you.

Thank you, I can relate in everything you have mentioned. But how should I approach the discussion?

Thank you, I can relate in everything you have mentioned. But how should I approach the discussion?

By ignoring it.

Or you could say - "I have a week's vacation due in month x - buy me a ticket and I'll schedule it"

You'll get your answer.