Broke up on bad terms

My ex and I broke up on bad terms three days ago.

I don’t regret it, because he lied to me. But I feel sad about it. We’re blocked in every social media, zero contact since that day. I’m so mad at him. He told me to “never talk to him again”. I don’t want him to talk to me either, but...

I’m feeling so sad... He was a friend and bf four days ago and now we’re nothing.

Just know it's normal to feel sad and it'll probably take a minimum of 4 to 6 months to start to have closure if you remain no contact. I't a crucial step on the way to healing. I've been there as most of us have. Take care.

Wait a minute! Is this the guy who was dating his girlfriend when he was dating you too? I'm not saying you can't have feelings for him, but he was a liar and a cheat! Get over him already!

Thank you, Andrina!! :)

DanZee, yaaa that guy!

A lot happened since that post. He actually broke up with his now ex-gf.

I had a blind optimism that he cheated on her because his relationship was already over and he liked me. And we were dating since that time.

DanZee but then, three days ago I found out he was dating another girl besides me SINCE the time he was with his ex-gf.

The funny thing is that HE’s the one who’s mad at me, because I talked to the other girl he was dating (and she broke up with him too).

I should’ve know he was troubled... lesson learned.

Yep, you should have know.

I suspect you did.

Might be time to be single and sift through any baggage or insecurities you may have that caused you to think this guy was a safe bet.

It's good you are no contact and blocked and deleted him. He's a cad. At least now you can move forward to decent faithful guys who aren't players.

three days ago I found out he was dating another girl besides me SINCE the time he was with his ex-gf.... lesson learned.

My ex and I broke up on bad terms three days ago.

I don’t regret it, because he lied to me. But I feel sad about it. We’re blocked in every social media, zero contact since that day.

Stick to it, and start doing some new things to fill your time.

If and when he calms down and finds some way to send you a communication, if its just some breadcrumb to see if he still has your attention, ignore it.

Breakups are rarely something that makes anyone happy. You get to decide how much 'damage' your involvement with this guy is allowed to do to your psyche. We can either grow and become strengthened by what we learn from our experiences, or we can ruminate and work against ourselves.

Choose wisely, and head high.