ninjabib Posted October 18, 2019 Share Posted October 18, 2019 Sounds like things are going well! Congrats :) 1 Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 18, 2019 Author Share Posted October 18, 2019 Sounds like things are going well! Congrats :) Thanks ! ..... Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 22, 2019 Author Share Posted October 22, 2019 I am closing tomorrow. I am getting sick as hell. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 22, 2019 Share Posted October 22, 2019 I am closing tomorrow. I am getting sick as hell. I hope you feel better!!! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 22, 2019 Author Share Posted October 22, 2019 I hope you feel better!!! Thanks. I have a sinus infection and a goopy eye and a cough and a headache. I have an appointment with my dr anyway for my blood pressure check. Hopefully, he will see me about this while there . I am a complete wreck and am just exhausted. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted October 22, 2019 Share Posted October 22, 2019 Thanks. I have a sinus infection and a goopy eye and a cough and a headache. I have an appointment with my dr anyway for my blood pressure check. Hopefully, he will see me about this while there . I am a complete wreck and am just exhausted. Yes I can imagine -you're probably not getting enough rest to get this under control. I'm sorry to hear this. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 22, 2019 Author Share Posted October 22, 2019 Yes I can imagine -you're probably not getting enough rest to get this under control. I'm sorry to hear this. Not to mention my fractured ankle and hand. I just need a break for a day and get some meds and recoup. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted October 22, 2019 Author Share Posted October 22, 2019 All kids are gone. Thud. Link to comment
Jibralta Posted October 22, 2019 Share Posted October 22, 2019 Thud. lol feel better. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 17, 2019 Author Share Posted November 17, 2019 As much as I enjoy kids I really enjoyed my day off on Friday! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 17, 2019 Author Share Posted November 17, 2019 J can’t work tomorrow and for who knows how long though she won’t admit it . She put her back out. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 19, 2019 Author Share Posted November 19, 2019 J isn’t coming until the very earliest Thursday MAYBE. I am going to have to cancel my doctor’s appointment Friday I think. It is quiet today. Just my babies, the older kids are throwing up. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 21, 2019 Author Share Posted November 21, 2019 Are you effin kidding me..... J says to me when you’re not busy can you look for Physio places for me? you have being there for a week while I am run off my azz. I work literally 18 hours today because I said I would do a private babysitting gig for this Colonel after my daycare closes until midnight. Both you and your daughter are sitting on your rump all day and you can’t look up phone numbers??????? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 21, 2019 Author Share Posted November 21, 2019 I work literally from 6:30 this AM to Midnight with NO break and you want me to look up numbers for you??? Um, NO! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 21, 2019 Author Share Posted November 21, 2019 She text me saying she feared losing her job because I am fine without her . I said , yes I do need your help but my health is a priority too I can’t keep cancelling doctors appointments because you’re off or have doctors appointments too. We have to work with each other here not at opposite to each other . I am not your enemy and I’m not trying to screw you . We both have health concerns and we both need to be considerate of each other. I know your life with your husband only taught you to give a crap about yourself and your kids but you have to work with me. I am doing you a favour too you know . Link to comment
luminousone Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 Is J still doing the school bus job, too? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 Is J still doing the school bus job, too? Not right now. She couldn’t even walk as far as her bathroom. She may lose that job who knows . Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 7.5 more hours to go and then I can fall down and die. Working 20 hours yesterday almost killed me. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 Working 31 hours of 48 is craycray. Link to comment
ninjabib Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 Don't push yourself too hard Seraphim! You need to rest up too and recharge your batteries. Link to comment
abitbroken Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 Not right now. She couldn’t even walk as far as her bathroom. She may lose that job who knows . How can she work at a daycare, then. Little kids sometimes need to be picked up - definitely babies, but often toddlers, too. Why not hire someone else part time and fire her? I know you said you could not afford it, but you can't afford to be broken. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 How can she work at a daycare, then. Little kids sometimes need to be picked up - definitely babies, but often toddlers, too. Why not hire someone else part time and fire her? I know you said you could not afford it, but you can't afford to be broken. Her doctor feels she will be much better with Physio. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 22, 2019 Author Share Posted November 22, 2019 Don't push yourself too hard Seraphim! You need to rest up too and recharge your batteries. Week is over in 5 mins THANK GOD! Link to comment
Seraphim Posted November 25, 2019 Author Share Posted November 25, 2019 Saturday I picked up J and her daughter to go to the Christmas market. And then we went out for lunch and another store. Basically I realized my mistake and treating her like an equal in the business. I’m the one taking all the risk ,all the falls and most of the work. I told her yes, she has appointments but so do and I am the boss so you need to work around me not the other way around. You don’t tell me when you are doing this that and the other. I get we are friends but at work I am your boss. I assured her I need her help but at work I am your boss not your buddy. For whatever reason she was more happy and friendly than before . Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 25, 2019 Share Posted November 25, 2019 Saturday I picked up J and her daughter to go to the Christmas market. And then we went out for lunch and another store. Basically I realized my mistake and treating her like an equal in the business. I’m the one taking all the risk ,all the falls and most of the work. I told her yes, she has appointments but so do and I am the boss so you need to work around me not the other way around. You don’t tell me when you are doing this that and the other. I get we are friends but at work I am your boss. I assured her I need her help but at work I am your boss not your buddy. For whatever reason she was more happy and friendly than before . Wow! Very impressive! That sounds like a tough conversation and you handled it beautifully. Link to comment
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