Self Employment:Greater Freedom: Freedom 60

[Batya33]

Time to be done. She sent me a text today that she did not feel what she got paid was fair. Because I got another child and make great money now she feels she is entitled to more pay though she works less . Yup, entitled is right. Changed my Netflix password and no longer going to order Scentsy with her daughter and maybe she doesn’t have a job with me Monday. 😡😡😡😡

Good for you!!! You must be proud of yourself. That took a lot.

[~Seraphim ~]

It did. They haven’t mentioned the Netflix and I don’t think she will dare ask. I also hid my pop because she hasn’t paid to drink it in 3 weeks. We had a salary negotiation and I had in mind what my top amount I was going to pay was but I did manage to lowball her far below that . But I do really resent that she pulled that sh*t when I’m in a really vulnerable position

Good for you!!! You must be proud of yourself. That took a lot.

[~Seraphim ~]

I got my approval from the base commander!

[~Seraphim ~]

I have also started talking about myself as the sole entity of the business and I didn’t drive her home today . The board she is a bus monitor for had a PA day and she was here from 8-4:30. One of my clients offered her a ride home and I was like off you go .

[~Seraphim ~]

They have noticed I cut off their free Netflix. She made a comment of a great new free service to her daughter on Facebook . You couldn’t mention it to her when she’s sitting her butt right next to you ? Jeebus!

[itsallgrand]

They have noticed I cut off their free Netflix. She made a comment of a great new free service to her daughter on Facebook . You couldn’t mention it to her when she’s sitting her butt right next to you ? Jeebus!

Yeah, these kinds of folk adapt and move on quickly to the next source that can provide for them.
I'm glad you stood up for yourself and have figured it out sooner than later. Can you imagine trying to rely on her when you are going through all this ? It would have just hurt you more, because she's not going to change her stripes at this point in the game.

[~Seraphim ~]

Yeah, these kinds of folk adapt and move on quickly to the next source that can provide for them.
I'm glad you stood up for yourself and have figured it out sooner than later. Can you imagine trying to rely on her when you are going through all this ? It would have just hurt you more, because she's not going to change her stripes at this point in the game.

I thought it was hilarious since her and her daughter live in the same apartment . I know it’s a dig at me but I didn’t bother responding . I don’t do Facebook wars because I’m not 12 . Oh well, no loss, right.

[~Seraphim ~]

A while back I took her to meet my mom. I guess they had a little chat while I was in the bathroom at the restaurant. Where upon she told my mom, oh they are very very kind people and do so much for me.

My mom got the idea that she was jealous of me, not me the person, but my capacity to have “ things”. We both made choices though and I am not responsible for her choices.

[~Seraphim ~]

J is acting normal finally after a month. I talked to her daughter about the Netflix thing . And her daughter says oh no we can afford our own now and my dad wants it so we’re going half with my dad . But I felt like saying what you guys think I can’t add . She gets 1300 and something for her disability . And she pays half the rent and half their heat and Hydro . J makes $1000 a month as a bus monitor whatever she gets for her old age and Canada pension AND supplement which is 1400 a month and whatever she makes from me . And their apartment is $800 and they have heat and Hydro and that’s it . Together they make almost 4000 a month or over and they are hitting me up for taxes and their Netflix ???????? I feel like saying I can add .

However ,she was in a good mood today and did her share of the work .

[~Seraphim ~]

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