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Thread: Am I pushing him too much?

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    Being unemployed isn't a huge deal, it's the fact he's whinging and not even TRYING to find one.


    The laziness is what I find a turn off.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    So you're personalizing this even though the two situations are night and day.

    This man isn't moving to a new city and taking a chance. He's been unemployed for 4 months and isn't even looking for a job, he's depressed but stopped all medication, he is in crisis mode and decided to start dating.

    Again the degree that you're personalizing this is uncanny, it's not the same, I remember your post about the subject very well.
    I agree. I have friends that go through periods of being jobless, I have too. But most of them make effort to get back out there. Doing nothing and refusing to take medication whilst having mental issues is not a good way to go.

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