shemmyemmy23 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 So my boyfriend of two months recently just moved away. We are only an hour or so away from one another so we’re still going to see each other during weekends. For some reason though, I just keep worrying about him cheating and finding someone else although he hasn’t given me any reason to feel this way... but I just can’t shake it off. It’s got to a point where I’m even worried he’ll fall for one of his housemates. What do I do? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 Why is he moving? For uni or work? After dating only 8 weeks all you can do is see how it goes and if you want a weekend/long distance situation. Decide if you think pursuing a LDR is worthwhile, since you are already having the typical doubtsSo my boyfriend of two months recently just moved away. We are only an hour or so away from one another so we’re still going to see each other during weekends. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 You either figure out how to get over this, since he hasnt given you a reason to feel this way, or you move on and find someone close by. If you dont have trust, you dont have anything. Link to comment
Vinkara Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 Just see how your relationship develops and try to enjoy the time you have with him. LDR's are hard enough already. Also, accept his reasons for moving away, whatever they are, and understand that it's for his best (I'm assuming) Link to comment
bluecastle Posted August 23, 2018 Share Posted August 23, 2018 Do you have a history of these sorts of insecure feelings in romance? If so, I'd take this time to explore them. Because if you're only secure in a relationship when you have eyes on your person/are spending every day with them there's a good chance you're using that "security" to make up for something within. That's never a recipe for a stable relationship. An hour a way hardly constitutes long distance. In Los Angeles, where I live part time, that's often the distance between neighborhoods with traffic. You need to be comfortable with him living his own life—and you living yours—if you want things between you to grown and expand organically. Link to comment
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