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    Platinum Member reinventmyself's Avatar
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    Originally Posted by bluecastle
    These things happen, and I wish you all the best in dealing with it.
    same here.
    good luck.

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    If I was a male and was involved in a FWB situation and the girl was 100% getting an abortion. Why in the name of all that is good would I want to know? If she was keeping it then yes, tell me so I can step up to the plate but I don't need to know someone is terminating something neither of us wanted to happen. Just get it done and get on with our lives without one another in each others.

    I'm pro choice however and frankly, I think it's selfish to tell under the circumstances.

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    I am still on the "dont tell him" team.

    What he said before & what he says when faced with the information could be 2 different things.

    What if he gets all excited about being a Dad? What is he gets all clingy & needy & wants you to have the baby? This could turn into a huge drama, you wanting to abort, him saying "no you cant".

    Just something to think over.

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    Originally Posted by shellyf62
    I am still on the "dont tell him" team.

    What he said before & what he says when faced with the information could be 2 different things.

    What if he gets all excited about being a Dad? What is he gets all clingy & needy & wants you to have the baby? This could turn into a huge drama, you wanting to abort, him saying "no you cant".

    Just something to think over.
    Wade vs Roe all over again.

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    Agree there will be a lot of drama if she tells him. Mostly a disruption in his relationship with his gf, but that may be the reason for this disclosure. He has no standing in this as it's not proven it's his since they are not in a relationship. In general he would have no say in it either way.
    Originally Posted by shellyf62
    him saying "no you cant".

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