I think I'm loosing it

Hello,

I have this girlfriend whom I love so much but I can't help but get jealous whenever she does certain things.

There are times she'll call me to tell me she wants to go out with certain guys and end up collecting money from them.

Why I suspect she's been untruthful is because when we started dating some years ago, she told me she has just had sex only once in her life. When eventually made love, she was not tight down there at all.

While we are on a date, she receives calls from unknown guys and she tells them she miss them and they should let her know when they are free.

What I can't seem to understand is that she tells me how much she loves me... Help me out before I loose my mind!..

Could be your intuition. Do you normally struggle with paranoia? I have learned to trust my intuition.

Believe me, it's really easy for people to say stuff like "I love you" and it mean very little. Trust actions not just words.

Follow your gut.

And, women being "tight" down there has little to do with the number of times they've had sex...

As for the Paranoia part, I don't think I have that problem...

The way she says the "baby I love you" could even make the hardest of heart melt...

Hello,

I have this girlfriend whom I love so much but I can't help but get jealous whenever she does certain things.

There are times she'll call me to tell me she wants to go out with certain guys and end up collecting money from them.

Why I suspect she's been untruthful is because when we started dating some years ago, she told me she has just had sex only once in her life. When eventually made love, she was not tight down there at all.

While we are on a date, she receives calls from unknown guys and she tells them she miss them and they should let her know when they are free.

What I can't seem to understand is that she tells me how much she loves me... Help me out before I loose my mind!..

Uh...you're dating an escort. But I think you already know that.

OK first of all, how "tight" a woman is has NOTHING to do with how many times she has had sex. Frequent use of tampons can make a woman "less tight". That is not any kind of indicator at all.

And secondly....she goes out with men and collects money from them? There's a word for that....

Is she a hooker, escort or sugar baby?

There are times she'll call me to tell me she wants to go out with certain guys and end up collecting money from them.

Is she an escort? Why is she collecting money from men?

Is she a hooker, escort or sugar baby?

No she's not, infact I don't know what to think again

Is she an escort? Why is she collecting money from men?

She says they gave it to her as gifts...

She says they gave it to her as gifts...

And why exactly are they gifting her?

If you believe this is all innocent and she's not doing anything in exchange for these "gifts", well, I have a bridge to sell you.

Come on, OP. You know what she's up to.

On board that this statement is preposterous, almost laughable:

"Why I suspect she's been untruthful is because when we started dating some years ago, she told me she has just had sex only once in her life. When eventually made love, she was not tight down there at all"

Women are born with different sized vaginas. Therefore, some are smaller than average, and others are larger than average. Tampons, lubrication, or toys can also affect how easily you can insert "P" into "V".

Regardless of this fact about women in general, you should be looking at these inappropriate situations instead:

"There are times she'll call me to tell me she wants to go out with certain guys and end up collecting money from them...While we are on a date, she receives calls from unknown guys and she tells them she miss them and they should let her know when they are free."

She does sound like a sugar baby, escort, or gold digger. Who, other than one of those three labels, accepts money regularly from strange men? Why do you accept this when you clearly don't approve of the situation? Get out. You are being used. Are you also giving her money at all, including only you paying for nights out? You sound like just another one of her "johns".

Ok so she's "a virgin" for everyone and men give her gifts or money for "going out"?

No she's not, infact I don't know what to think again

Wow thanks guys... I think I've been emotionally robbed all these years...