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    Platinum Member bluecastle's Avatar
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    Listen to figureitout. Like, for real.

    You are already so far from a healthy, sustainable thing here. Drugs, a prostitute—you're either cool with that or you're not, and you're not. No shame in that—that's a big pill to swallow for a lot of people. So, move on.

    Most important, this guy is treating you terribly—any more contact with him is a reward, sending the message that this treatment is acceptable. In other words, you're cementing a messed up dynamic that, as the cement dries, will just leave you in tatters.

    Go back to swiping. Your feelings for this guy will fade quickly, and you'll find yourself engaging with a much more compatible and kind person before you know it. At which point you'll look back on all this and just kind of shrug and laugh.

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    All abusers use that hook.
    Originally Posted by Newgirlforever
    He tells me that he's serious about me

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    .....you're with this person why???? He treats you badly and has a shady sexual history. DUMP HIM

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    Originally Posted by Newgirlforever
    Yea I met him on Tinder. It's a long distance relationship btw ya'll
    Tinder. That explains why this relationship is unhealthy.

    I can assure you 99.9% of the people are NOT serious when it comes to tinder. Date a local instead. Get out of this relationship

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    So it IS the same individual. A highly unsuitable individual! You got great advice back then, and evidently did not take that advice.

    Why are you still with this person? He has nothing to offer you. You said then you met him on Tinder, he is long distance.

    One poster (among others) back then told you in plain terms that he is an abusive jerk.

    Surely you can do better.

    And this is meaningless chatter.

    "and calls me these lovey dovey names. "

    Nothing special about babe and sweetie. Common currency.

    I brought up this thread so we can see where you are at today, 2 years later!

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