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Im having a hard time getting over my crush


Dadadaisy123

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Shes a friend of mine, and inicially i believed the attraction was mutual. But i decided to move on last week.. I know its natural to still have feelings for her, but every now and then i catch myself doing things to impress her, or get her attention/approvoal. To make her notice me. And every time i feel rejected... and also pathetic.... but its hard to lose hope, and to accept shes simply not attracted to me

 

 

My last relationship lasted 5 years and ended 10 months ago, so i guess I miss having someone and this crush reopened old wounds

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Are you talking to her on a daily basis? Stop that! Lol!

 

If you decided to move on last week but you are still catching yourself trying to impress her, etc - you are in regular contact with her.

 

You almost have to treat it like a break up. You can go back to being friends after - but be kind to yourself and give yourself time to move on first...

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Did you ever speak to her directly about your feelings? What makes you so sure she doesn't like you as well?

 

It's not a true friendship, if in the back of your head you want the two of you to develop a romantic relationship. Talk to her directly if you haven't already, and if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, take some time away from her where you two don't talk.

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