Dadadaisy123 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Shes a friend of mine, and inicially i believed the attraction was mutual. But i decided to move on last week.. I know its natural to still have feelings for her, but every now and then i catch myself doing things to impress her, or get her attention/approvoal. To make her notice me. And every time i feel rejected... and also pathetic.... but its hard to lose hope, and to accept shes simply not attracted to me My last relationship lasted 5 years and ended 10 months ago, so i guess I miss having someone and this crush reopened old wounds Link to comment
DanZee Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 You've got to move on and find another girl to ask out. Link to comment
RedDress Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Are you talking to her on a daily basis? Stop that! Lol! If you decided to move on last week but you are still catching yourself trying to impress her, etc - you are in regular contact with her. You almost have to treat it like a break up. You can go back to being friends after - but be kind to yourself and give yourself time to move on first... Link to comment
SGH Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Did you ever speak to her directly about your feelings? What makes you so sure she doesn't like you as well? It's not a true friendship, if in the back of your head you want the two of you to develop a romantic relationship. Talk to her directly if you haven't already, and if she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, take some time away from her where you two don't talk. Link to comment
Andrina Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Your feelings for her are going to prevent you from bonding with a potential gf. Spend more time with your other friends and join meetups.com to meet single women your age, since you're seeking a romantic partner. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 You need to stay away from her. You cannot be friends if there are feelings. As you can see. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2018 Share Posted August 7, 2018 Make sure they are available and date women.Im a girl too! And im unable to fall in love with tinder dates. I only fall in love with friends. Link to comment
Dadadaisy123 Posted August 11, 2018 Author Share Posted August 11, 2018 Make sure they are available and date women. Yes, I do make sure. But I guess im not attractive enough. I dont know... maybe there is something nasty about my personality Link to comment
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